Table of contents for Hold on to your kids : why parents need to matter more than peers / Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Matâe.

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PART ONE
  THE PHENOMENON OF PEER ORIENTATION

  1. Why Parents Matter More Than Ever / 3
  2. Skewed Attachments, Subverted Instincts / 15
  3. Why We've Come Undone / 31

PART TWO
  SABOTAGED: HOW PEER ORIENTATION
  UNDERMINES PARENTING

  4. The Power to Parent Is Slipping Away / 47
  5. From Help to Hindrance:
  When Attachment Works Against Us / 59
  6. Counterwill: Why Children Become Disobedient / 74
  7. The Flatlining of Culture / 86

PART THREE
  STUCK IN IMMATURITY: HOW PEER ORIENTATION
  STUNTS HEALTHY DEVELOPMENT

  8. The Dangerous Flight from Feeling / 97
  9. Stuck in Immaturity / 110
 10. ALegacyofAggression / 127




 11. The Making of Bullies and Victims / 139
 12. ASexualTurn  / 154
 13. Unteachable Students / 165

PART FOUR
  HOW TO HOLD ON TO OUR KIDS
  (OR HOW TO RECLAIM THEM)

 14. Collecting Our Children / 179
 15. Preserve the Ties That Empower / 196
 16. Discipline That Does Not Divide / 213

PART FIVE
  PREVENTING PEER ORIENTATION

 17. Don't Court the Competition / 235
 18. Re-create the Attachment Village / 254

Glossary / 265
Notes / 275
Index / 281