Table of contents for I love you, now what? : falling in love is a mystery, keeping it isn't / by Mabel Iam.

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I would like to acknowledge and dedicate this book to:	
I would also like to thank:	
Prologue: My Personal Story	
I Love You: Now What?	
Introduction	
What Actually Happens in Relationships?	
Now What?	
The Three Golden Steps to Great Relationships	
PART ONE	
LOVE: NOW WHAT?	
Chapter 1	
I Love You, and I Love Myself	
Why Do We Fall in Love, and With Whom?	
Should There Be a School for Love?	
The Inner Mirror	
Liberating Ourselves from False Mirrors and Relationships	
Chapter 2	
I Love You and I¿m Falling Deeper in Love	
Romance and Falling In Love	
What Emotions are produced at the Beginning of a Romantic Relationship?	
Confessions and Testimonials	
The Freedom to Choose	
Anxiety and Falling In Love	
What Do We Do If Love Really Does Show Up?	
Chapter 3	
I Love You and Want You to Feel Sure of My Love	
How Do We Know When It¿s Love?	
How Do You Declare Your Love?	
Places in Which to Say ¿I Love You¿	
The Language of Kisses	
The Fire of Touch	
20 Phrases for Lovers	
Chapter 4	
I Love You a Thousand Ways	
Relationship Models and Testimonials	
The Romantic Relationship	
The Conflictive Relationship	
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The Illusionary Relationship	
The Total Relationship	
Chapter 5	
I Love You and I Want to Live With You	
The New Couple: Living Together (A New Structure?)	
Now What? Should We Get Married?	
False Myths Regarding Marriage:	
Chapter 6	
I Love You and Want to Marry You	
The True Meaning of Marriage	
Comments on Marriage	
Chapter 7	
I Love You ¿ Forever?	
To Love or Not to Love? Is That the Question?	
Love After ¿I Love You¿	
Falling Out of Love	
Chapter 8	
I Love You Because You¿re My Ideal Mate	
The Inner Couple	
How Do We Recognize the Masculine and Feminine Energy in Ourselves?	
Visualization of the inner couple: feminine and masculine energies	
Visualizing the Inner Masculine Energy in Both Sexes	
Exploring Your Instinctive Impulses	
Deepening the Inner Feminine Energy in Both Sexes	
Improving Relationships	
By learning to tap into our inner source, we can project an external reality filled with 
happiness, satisfaction and love; and by sharing this reality with others, we create a 
unique and wondrous universe.	
Chapter 9	
I Love You and Am Willing to Transform My Fears	
Losing Love: Fear and Its Negative Zones	
Eliminate the Fear of Love from Your Mind	
Fatal Attraction: Anxiety and Fear	
What happens when anxiety and fear come together?	
Love¿s Kingdom	
Open Your Heart without Fear	
Chapter 10	
I Love You and Don¿t Want to Argue With You	
Arguments Kill Relationships	
Motives that Lead to Arguments	
Those Who Thrive on Arguments	
Situations that Contaminate Relationships and Lead to Arguments	
BOX	
Freeing Yourself from Excuses	
Why Do Arguments Happen?	
Transforming Guilt	
Exercise to Nurture Inner Trust	
Freeing Ourselves from Complaints	
Five Golden Rules for Arguing Without Problems	
Chapter 11	
I Love You but I Don¿t Need to Possess You	
Jealousy: The Shadow of Love	
The Jealous lover	
What do we do with jealousy if it persists and doesn¿t allow us to love?	
Chapter 12	
I Love You Enough to Overcome My Anger	
Anger and Its Consequences in Relationships	
Learn to Breathe and Free Your Anger	
Calming Volatile Emotions	
Healing Wounded Relationships	
Chapter 13	
I Love You and Our Communication is Perfect	
Assertive Communication	
The Power of Words	
Communication without Guilt	
Understanding Freedom	
Be Willing to Reach an Agreement	
Affection Before, During and After	
Reconciling with Yourself and with Others	
Transforming Negative Emotions	
Chapter 14	
I Love You and I Want You to Humor Me	
Using Humor to Awaken Our Inner Child	
A Sense of Humor	
What Is Your Sense of Humor Profile?	
Humor: Another Approach to Pleasure?	
The Fascinating Inner Child	
Characteristics of the Inner Child	
Ways to Make Your Inner Child Happy	
END BOX	
Pleasing Your Inner Child	
Connecting With Your Inner Child	
The Dialogue with My Inner Child	
Chapter 15	
I Love you and Want to Shower You with Tenderness	
Tenderness: The Recipe for Lasting Love	
The Tender Embrace	
Visualization: The Tenderness in You	
Gestures that Express Tenderness	
PART TWO	
SEXUALITY: NOW WHAT?	
Chapter 16	
I Love You and I Burn with Desire for You	
Sex After ¿I Love You¿	
Physical and Spiritual Satisfaction	
BOX	
Connecting with Your Inner Lover	
Chapter 17	
Pleasure Trip: Alone or With Someone?	
Autoeroticism: Haven¿t You Ever Tried It?	
Self-Sex	
Discovering Your Own Pleasure	
Autoeroticism, the Female Genital Area and Women¿s Confessions	
Women¿s Erotic Confessions	
The Male Genital Anatomy	
Autoeroticism in Men	
Men¿s Erotic Confessions	
False Myths Regarding Masturbation	
Chapter 18	
I Love You and Want to Arouse You through Touch	
Erotic Massage for Women and Stimulation of the G-Spot	
Massage as a Means to Male Multiple Orgasms	
Mutual Masturbation	
Chapter 19	
I Love You and Want to Kiss You All Over	
Oral Sex: Pleasure and Taste	
Oral Pleasure for Women	
The Signs of Satisfaction in a Woman	
More Erotic Confessions	
Fellatio: Oral Pleasure for Men	
The Taste of Semen	
Odors, Flavors and Colors	
Mutual Oral Sex: The World-Famous 69 Position	
Chapter 20	
I Love You and Want to Explore Every Part of You	
Anal Sex	
Anal Techniques	
Eight Perfect Positions for Anal Sex	
Chapter 21	
I Love You and You Fuel My Fantasies	
Fantasies and Eroticism	
Fantasies: The Dark Side	
Common Male Fantasies	
Women¿s Sexual Fantasies	
What¿s Blocking Our Erotic Fantasies?	
Chapter 22	
I Love You and Want to Make Love with You All the Time	
Sex: Hours, Locations, Games and Toys	
Different Places in Which to Make Love	
Sex Games	
Tips for Playing Erotic Games	
Sex Toys	
Chapter 23	
I Love You and I Love the Magic of Our Union	
Erotic Energy and How it Works	
Elements that Fire Up Sexual Energy	
How to Keep Erotic Energy Alive Forever	
BOX	
Nurturing Lasting Passion	
Chapter 24	
I Love You from the Center of My Being	
Sex Nourishes the Spirit	
Ceremonial Sex	
Aphrodisiacs: Foods with aphrodisiac qualities include dried fruit, cinnamon, celery, 
chocolate, apples, pineapples, bananas, grapes, champagne, honey, fish, shellfish, and 
sparkling wine.	
Sexual Wisdom	
The Seven Essential Principles for Happiness in Love	
In Conclusion	
I Love You and Want to Love You for the Rest of My Life	
Make It Your Top Priority to Commit Yourself Totally to Your Partner	
Spend Time Together Enjoying Different Activities	
Protect Your Partner¿s Health	
Save Up Money for a Joint Project	
Express Your Love Frequently and Creatively	
Don¿t be Selfish	
Plan a Trip	
Avoid the Usual Preoccupations	
Work With Your Partner on a Spiritual Level	
Be Generous with Compliments	
Learn to Be Friends	
Renew Your Trust	
Accept One Another Mutually	
Cultivating Happiness	
Epilogue	
I Love	
Bibliography	

Library of Congress Subject Headings for this publication:

Man-woman relationships.
Love.
Couples.