Table of contents for Being and loving / Althea J. Horner.

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CONTENTS
PREFACE 	
EXCERPTS FROM THE PREFACE TO THE 1999 EDITION
EXCERPTS FROM THE INTRODUCTION TO THE 1990 EDITION
EXCERPTS FROM THE INTRODUCTION TO THE 1986 EDITION		 
1. 		Being Versus Loving: The Core Conflict			
2. 		Why Look Back?						
3. 		Becoming One: The Basis for Loving			
			The Attachment Process and the Capacity
				to Love
			Stability of the Caretaking Environment
			Mothering and Attachment
			The Unsatisfactory Symbiosis
			The False Self
			The Conflict Begins
4. 		Becoming Two: The Basis for Being			
			How Parents Can Help (or Hinder)
5. 		The Power Pivot						
 			You Are My Right Hand
			You Are a Reflection of Me
			Give Me Your Power
			The Role of Parents
6. 		Needing Ain't Loving					
			I Need You to Convince Me That I Exist
			I Need You to Tell Me Who I Am
			I Need You to Keep Me from Feeling Lost
			I Need You to Make Me Perfect
			I Need You to Make Me Feel Good about
				Being Me
			I Need You to Measure Me Against
			Hostile Dependency: The Compromise That
				Doesn't Work
7. 			The Best of All Possible Worlds: Being Me and 
			Loving You							
				Becoming Whole
				Being Alone without Being Lonely
				Being Me and Loving You
8. 		Being and Loving in an Imperfect World			
9. 	The Developmental Tasks of Childhood and Adolescence and the Consolidation of Being and Loving 
10		How Is It with You?					
			What You Can Do for Yourself: Taking
				Inventory
			How to Find Your Self
			I Am a Person Who_______________
			Owning the Disowned
			Discovering Your Experiencing Self
			Your Bodily Self
			Listening to Your Self
			Putting It All Together
			When to Seek Help
11. 		Can Therapy Help?						
			Why with a Therapist?
			But on the Other Hand...
			Choosing a Therapist
			Therapeutic Goals and Styles
			Insight or Understanding
			Group Therapy?
			Male or Female?
			Problems of Being and Loving in Therapy
APPENDIX							
			Not for Parents Only
			Stages of Parenting
			Parents Are People Too
			Reciprocity - for Better or for Worse
			Is Perfect Parenting Possible?
			Parenting in an Imperfect World
			The Working Mother
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Library of Congress Subject Headings for this publication:

Identity (Psychology).
Intimacy (Psychology).
Developmental psychology.